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Her boss also called her in regards to the post below
Please judge me. Am I petty or simply a gold digger?
Two weeks ago I invited a guy I kind of liked to my house. It was on a Saturday and I wasn't going anywhere so I thought, why not? He never wanted to come initially but I convinced him to because I wanted him to see where I lived.
I woke up early. I cleaned and cooked a very nice meal. The cooking took me five hours but I didn't really mind because I was kind of vibing with this man.
When he came, he just came empty-handed. Not even fruits in his hands. No shopping. At that point, I started losing interest but I still welcomed him. I served the food, we ate and drank. He is the black label guy so I went out of my way to get the drink for this man.
When he was leaving my house, he just left. No money. What I know and how I was raised is that you cannot visit people empty handed because you are going to eat there and in case you go empty handed, you have to leave some token behind. I judged that man completely and I immediately knew he is not someone I would want to establish anything with.
I cut him off completely because I felt he was not someone I would ever respect. If I can feed you, what do I need you for? I also felt he did not appreciate me at all. I cooked guys. I cooked.
Well, I was raised around Kalenjins and Luhyas and one thing about those men, they will bring food. I have never seen these men fail to bring food. For me, my relationship rule is that you bring, I cook, you eat. I don't want a reverse of roles. I can't bring, cook, and a man eats. I lose respect for a man immediately the moment I am buying things and he consumes.
Does that make me a gold digger? Am I wrong for ruling out this man? Do I give a second chance? Am I petty?
Her boss also called her in regards to the post below
Please judge me. Am I petty or simply a gold digger?
Two weeks ago I invited a guy I kind of liked to my house. It was on a Saturday and I wasn't going anywhere so I thought, why not? He never wanted to come initially but I convinced him to because I wanted him to see where I lived.
I woke up early. I cleaned and cooked a very nice meal. The cooking took me five hours but I didn't really mind because I was kind of vibing with this man.
When he came, he just came empty-handed. Not even fruits in his hands. No shopping. At that point, I started losing interest but I still welcomed him. I served the food, we ate and drank. He is the black label guy so I went out of my way to get the drink for this man.
When he was leaving my house, he just left. No money. What I know and how I was raised is that you cannot visit people empty handed because you are going to eat there and in case you go empty handed, you have to leave some token behind. I judged that man completely and I immediately knew he is not someone I would want to establish anything with.
I cut him off completely because I felt he was not someone I would ever respect. If I can feed you, what do I need you for? I also felt he did not appreciate me at all. I cooked guys. I cooked.
Well, I was raised around Kalenjins and Luhyas and one thing about those men, they will bring food. I have never seen these men fail to bring food. For me, my relationship rule is that you bring, I cook, you eat. I don't want a reverse of roles. I can't bring, cook, and a man eats. I lose respect for a man immediately the moment I am buying things and he consumes.
Does that make me a gold digger? Am I wrong for ruling out this man? Do I give a second chance? Am I petty?